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Parenting can be tough, especially when it comes to teaching children responsibility and good manners. While some parents may view chores as a way to teach children responsibility, it’s important to understand that manners are a completely separate task, and are best taught through modeling day in and day out.


Teaching by modeling is an effective way to instill strong values in your children. Rather than telling your child what you want them to do, show them through your own behavior. For example, if you want your child to be thoughtful and considerate of others, hold doors open for them and wait to eat until they are at the table. It’s also important to share with your child what you are doing and why, so they can understand the value of these behaviors.




Research has shown that values cannot be taught directly. They are absorbed and become part of the child only through identification with and emulation of persons who gain their love and respect. This means that as a parent, it’s important to model the behaviors you want your children to emulate. By doing so, you are teaching your children important values that will serve them well as they grow into adults.


Praise is also an important tool for parents. When your child puts forth effort, whether it’s working on homework, studying for tests, washing the windows, or cleaning the dishes, make sure to praise their efforts and accomplishments. Our words should state clearly what we like and appreciate about their effort, help, work, consideration, creation, or accomplishments.


It’s also important to recognize that the process of getting to the end goal is just as important as the end goal itself. By recognizing and highlighting the effort your child is making, you are instilling a strong work ethic and character that will serve them well in all aspects of their life.




In the end, parenting is a never-ending job, but by instilling strong values in your children from a young age, you are setting them up for success in all areas of their life. Whether it’s through modeling good behavior or praising their efforts, every moment is an opportunity to show your children how much you value them. So, take the time to invest in your children, and watch them grow into the responsible and caring adults you always knew they could be.


If you want more information on this topic, please check out my book, Raising Thoughtful Children Without Going Crazy! Perspective of a Mom and Educator, available on Amazon.

Behaviors and their consequences are two sides of the same coin. We all know that our actions have repercussions, whether they are positive or negative. The challenge lies in helping our children understand this concept and navigate the path towards responsible decision-making.


Dr. Ginott's approach is a great starting point for parents who want to instill positive values in their children. Empathetic conversations is a powerful tool in helping children learn right from wrong. When we take the time to truly listen to our children's feelings and validate their emotions, we're sending a powerful message that we respect and care about them. This creates an atmosphere of trust and understanding that can lead to healthy communication and positive outcomes. But what happens when things don't go as planned? When our children make mistakes or engage in behavior that we don't agree with? It's important to remember that consequences can also be an opportunity for growth and learning. When we approach the situation with empathy and understanding, we can help our children learn from their mistakes and move forward in a positive direction. Of course, this is easier said than done. It's natural to feel frustrated or angry when our children don't behave as we'd like them to. However, by modeling positive behavior ourselves and staying calm and patient during difficult conversations, we can set the tone for a constructive dialogue that benefits everyone involved.


So, what are some practical steps that parents can take to foster healthy communication and positive behaviors in their children?

First, prioritize active listening. When your child comes to you with a problem or a concern, take the time to truly listen to what they're saying. Try to understand their perspective and validate their feelings, even if you don't agree with their behavior.

Second, lead by example. Children learn more from what we do than what we say. Make a conscious effort to model positive behavior in your interactions with others, especially in front of your children.


Finally, practice patience and grace. When things don't go as planned, remember that this is an opportunity for growth and learning. Stay calm and focused on finding a constructive solution together.

In conclusion, behavior and its consequences are an important topic for parents to address with their children. By prioritizing empathetic communication, positive modeling, and patience, parents can help their children learn to make responsible decisions and navigate the complexities of life. The result? Stronger relationships, healthier communication, and a more positive outlook for everyone involved.


For more information on this topic, please check out my book, Raising Thoughtful Children Without Going Crazy! Perspective of a Mom and Educator, available on Amazon.


Creating a balanced lifestyle for your family is no easy task, but with the right mindset and approach, it can be achieved. It all starts with understanding what your family values the most. Is it spending time together, being active and involved in various activities, or perhaps maintaining a strong social network? Once you have identified your priorities, the rest can fall into place.


One crucial factor to keep in mind is the process versus the final product. When we focus solely on the end result, we often overlook the learning process that is involved. It is essential to teach our children the skills and tools needed to understand a situation that is successful or one that needs intervention. By doing so, we are providing them with the necessary tools to face obstacles in the future when they become independent adults. We must place emphasis on teaching and learning the process of completing any task, as this will provide invaluable life skills moving forward.

Another important factor is the balance between physical and social activities. Playing outside is not just for little kids. We all need time outside amongst nature to breathe in fresh air, enjoy the surroundings, and connect with nature. Being physically active outside while enjoying the environment with friends is a beautiful way to fulfill the need to be nurtured, loved, and connected. It is essential to ensure that we strike a balance between outdoor activities and screen time to promote overall health and well-being.


To ensure that we maintain a balanced lifestyle, it is essential to create a family calendar with all events listed on it. This makes it visible for all to see and reference, allowing for better time management and organization. We must teach our children the process of doing something, from study habits to learning how to cook, as this will aid in their growth and development. It is also essential to model and support a balanced lifestyle, demonstrating a strong work ethic, physical wellness, healthy mind, and engaging in activities. We must include our children in daily household tasks and errands such as grocery shopping, dry cleaning, or washing the car, as this fosters responsibility and independence.

In addition, daily physical activity should be included in our routines, even if it is short of the suggested medical requirement. We must enforce strong study skills, listen with an empathetic ear, focus on the process rather than the end result, and ensure health and safety above all else. It is also crucial to provide unstructured play during each day/week, allowing our children to explore their creativity and imagination freely.

Maintaining a balanced lifestyle requires dedication, patience, and a willingness to make changes. Keep in mind that balance does not mean perfection. Rather, it means striving to find a healthy middle ground that works for your family. By implementing these strategies, you can create a balanced lifestyle that promotes overall health and well-being for you and your loved ones.


In conclusion, creating a balanced lifestyle for your family requires careful consideration of your priorities and a willingness to make changes. By focusing on the process rather than the end result, striking a balance between physical and social activities, and implementing the above strategies, you can create a healthy and fulfilling lifestyle for your family. Remember to be patient, flexible, and open-minded, and you will be well on your way to creating a happy and healthy home.

If you want more information on this topic, please check out my book, Raising Thoughtful Children Without Going Crazy! Perspective of a Mom and Educator, available on Amazon.



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